Scripture says, “Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute. Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy.” Proverbs 31:8-9
In college I read this passage and took it to heart. I determined that I was going to be a lawyer like my grandfather before me and use my skills and talents to defend the rights of the poor and downtrodden in America.
Little did I know that the Lord had a slightly different plan and was preparing me for work with orphans throughout the Middle East and the world.
The Scriptures are strewn with examples of God coming to the defense of orphans and widows, I was reading this morning in Deuteronomy 22:22-24
“Do not take advantage of a widow or an orphan. If you do and they cry out to me, I will certainly hear their cry. My anger will be aroused, and I will kill you with the sword; your wives will become widows and your children fatherless.”
I don’t know about you, but I haven’t read many passages in the Bible that are more explicit than that. It makes a nice Sunday School lesson doesn’t it, “I will kill you…”
You’ve got to admit that God is serious about this, but are we?
And in Matthew 18:6 & 10-11 & 14 we read:
“But if anyone causes one of these little ones who believes in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a large millstone hung around his neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea…
See that you do not look down on one of these little ones. For I tell you that their angels in Heaven always see the face of my Father in Heaven…
…your Father in Heaven is not willing that any of these little ones should be lost.”
And, of course in James 1:27 we read:
“Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and undefiled is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.”
When we take steps to encounter and meet the needs of the orphans, we can be sure that God’s heart is already there waiting for us to join with Him and empower us in His work.
He hears their cry, and as King David himself said, “Though my father and mother forsake me, the LORD will receive me.” Psalm 27:10
Of course, I think that we would all agree that God’s heart is to defend the cause of the orphan, but I wonder if there is another reason that God calls us to stand up for them.
Anyone that has had even a minimal exposure to orphans in their abject need – longing for real love and affection, a sense of belonging – cannot help but be affected.
Same for the parents of their own natural children or those who have adopted, as Senator John McCain recently said in an interview speaking of his adopted Bangladesh daughter, "There is nothing in life like a child that you can nurture and love. The reciprocation of that love and nurturing is a thousand times more beneficial to you than it is to the child."
At a time in our history where activities take precedent over real communion with one another, here is perhaps one of the busier men in our country saying that there is nothing in life like caring for and looking after the needs of his adopted daughter – it fills him up and benefits him more than it could possibly benefit her.
I like that.
And what is it that Senator McCain is referring to when he says that he derives more benefit from his daughter then he could possibly give to her?
What is it that the orphan gives to us? And why, perhaps, does God say to the church, “You cannot walk a true path of faith without the help of orphans and widows.”
Why do we need them in order to become pure and undefiled in our faith in God’s sight?
Knowledge, we have been taught, is something we learn through books and with enough study nothing can be hidden from our grasp. Still, there is some knowledge that simply cannot be learned from books or from far off meditative thoughts.
There are just some things that can only be acquired by experience, and experience in the Kingdom of God only comes through obedience.
It’s a fact worth noting that in the end, obedience is the final measuring stick for all our lives, not knowledge, as Jesus himself said, “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the Kingdom of Heaven, but only he who does the will of my Father who is in Heaven.” Matt. 7:21
One could even go so far as to say that one does not know the full character of God without lending a hand to the orphan and widows around us as He commands.
For the scriptures say, “…whatever you did not do for one of the least of these you did not do for me.” Matt. 25:45b
In all these verses, I hope you can see that our love for God demands a subsequent action, if it is truly love as God defines it.
When Peter was questioned about his love for Christ, Jesus responded three times, “Feed my sheep.”
It’s as if Jesus is saying, “You can show me you love me best by taking care of those I love.”
I’m continually wrought with conviction when I consider God’s measuring stick: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your mind, all your strength, and all your soul. And love your neighbor as yourself.”
It’s a subjective measurement, really, so how is our love measured? Well, He shows us in His word...
He demands that we care for widows and orphans, for those hungry and needing shelter, for the naked and the prisoner. That is how we prove our love for Him. Not that we’re doing these things in our own strength or for His approval – trying to earn grace. [that’s an entirely different topic I won’t get into here.] These are all natural responses to a heart touched by the presence of God.
As I mentioned at the beginning, we can always be confident that any attempt on our part to care for orphans or those in need is preceded by God’s abundant love and care for them. So, when we step out we’ll find Him there. He’s waiting on us to get involved, to show the world that though He is great, He abides with the weak.
I encourage you to evaluate your own life and observe how God’s love shown to you is expressed towards others, especially the types of people that Christ mentions in Matt. 25: 31-46.
Does obedience mark your life? Then, caring for orphans and widows, for the sick, the naked, the prisoner, the stranger, the hungry, and the thirsty ought to be regular rhythms in your life. Not just with a check, lest we think we can outsource our devotion to God to others, but you personally getting your hands in the muck and mire of this downtrodden world – just as Jesus left the glories of Heaven to be with us and perform a mission characterized at every turn by complete self-denial and the raising up of the standard of obedience above all else.
Have you denied yourself for the benefit of others?
Jesus said, “…the world must learn that I love the Father and that I do exactly what my Father has commanded me.” John 14:31a
What is it that we say the world must learn? Democracy? The 4 Spiritual Laws? To stop encroaching on our Christian cul-de-sacs?
Jesus sets the standard, “Whoever serves me must follow me; and where I am, my servant will also be. My Father honors the one who serves me.” John 12:26
If Jesus said he needed to prove His love to the Father by being obedient to everything that the Father commanded Him to do, is it no less demanded of us to prove our love to Him (and not just to Him but to the world) in the same way – by being obedient to His every command?
Perhaps that’s why the church in America doesn’t appear as effective as it could be. Because we’ve stopped seeking to prove to the world that we love the Father above all else and will do everything that He has commanded us to do. It seems today that it is no longer a 'must' but a 'well, it would be nice, maybe, you know...'
“Jesus replied, ‘If anyone loves me, he will obey my teaching. My Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him.’” John 14:23a
Wow! God, Himself, will make His home with us.
This is the joy and benefit of caring for the orphan. It enables us to walk in obedience to our Lord’s commands demonstrating our love to Him and to the world, and thus, drawing ever more of the presence of God into our lives.
But, we don’t just receive a deeper and more profound understanding of God’s love as He makes His dwelling with us, we also get the benefit – the rapturous joy – of putting a smile on a child’s face who hasn’t known what hope is.
To be a part of filling the void of love in an orphan’s life we take part in the character and mission of Jesus Christ to seek and to save that which is lost, to destroy the works of Satan, and to adopt us as His children becoming a part of the family of God.
We need the orphan, because we need to be like Jesus. We must prove to the world our love for God by our faithful obedience to everything that He has commanded us to do… “look after orphans… in their distress," among other things. We're not complete in our expression of love to Him without reaching the orphan.
Perhaps, when we take this step we’ll realize that the love we offer the least of these is by far outweighed by the experience of laboring with God in mighty power and love, with all His angels in attendance, standing beside the orphans of the world.
I can assure you if you are looking to experience more of the heart of God, you’ll experience it there, and you’ll never be the same.
- Orphans enable us an outlet, an opportunity if you will, to tell the whole world of our love for our Father as we’re obedient to look after them in their distress.
- The process of reaching out to them, seeing them in their pain, changes us pealing us away from the petty, the temporary, and the non-essential.
- And as life and hope are imparted to the orphan, we receive immeasurably more in return as our lives commingle with God’s hands and feet in this world leading our hearts to look up to Heaven and say, “Thank you, God, for using me for such a mission as this.”
In the end, honestly, we’ll exclaim, “Thank you, God, for the orphan. I’m changed because of them. You’ve rent my heart, and at the same time poured more of your love deep inside me. I’ll never be the same again, and for that I am eternally grateful.”
And that’s my take on why “We need the orphan as much as the orphan needs us.”
This is just one perspective, of course. It’s how the above statement hits me. How would you respond? Why do we need the orphan as much as the orphan needs us? I invite you to share your comments and insights to this important question.